As a consequence I find I don't have much in common with men my age: I did a couple "speed dating" things and I had nothing at all in common with the men I met. They were all shopping for their retirement houses, and I was just getting started. I therefore get along better with younger men, we just have more in common in life. Not that I can't find older men attractive , we just have little to talk about. So my boyfriend is a lot younger than me. When we get older, I just hope he doesn't want to get rid of me. Age doesn't have to do with looks at all tbh. I have dated guys with my father's age I was , they were in their early 50s and they were super hot, chiseled body and everything.
It mostly depends on how much care someone takes of themselves, including exercise, diet, alcohol consumption, and smoking, as well as genetics. Most people of all ages are attracted to youth, and there are some young people who are attracted to older people. My guess is that the reason straight guys don't do it more is because it's taboo.
Of course it's taboo for gay guys too, but gay guys are less concerned with taboos. It takes courage for a gay guy to come out of the closet and date other men, so if they have enough courage to do that, then they probably have enough courage to date an older guy. There are lots of straight guys who are really into MILFs. But they rarely date them, probably because they don't have the courage to do it.
But gay guys are more willing to date whoever they want even if other people think it's weird. I'm 25 and my boyfriend is The reason I date older men is because I think they're hot. That's just how I've always been wired. Well to speak for myself, I am 23 in a relationship with someone twice my age and it has been going well for almost 6 years now.
I do not have an issue with dating someone younger than me, my age, or older. I never understood the stigma I just get along with who I get along with. People think it's because I need stability, that might be it but I pay half the bills and sometimes I pay for all the food for that month. Others think it just doesn't work because of the generation gap but I feel I have a good understanding of the different values of both our generations.
If I had met the same man and the only thing different was that he was my age I would say it definitely would have worked out the same. If anyone has a question they want to ask feel free, I can even grab my partner to answer questions as well. The older ones talk to me and we can have a conversation with out worrying about them ghosting me when they get bored.
My husband and I have been together for 6 years now. I am 34 and he is When we first met it was initially just a hook-up. I have been with men of many ages from younger, to same age, to older than myself obviously. For me personally, it's all about a connection. When we met, we just clicked. He was nervous about pursuing a relationship with me at first because of our age difference.
The youngest person he had dated was 7 years his junior. By Gay International Dating. I did find an interesting article on the Washington Post which talks about the commonality of inter-generational gay dating: Read full article The reality is as gay men our dating pool is simply smaller.
As monogamy takes a hold in our community we see our younger men seeking stable secure relationships. Read the study here. Is intergenerational dating a thing now? You may also like Older — Younger: Age Differences in Dating. Navigating Relationship Age Gaps.
Gregory Sytch November 27, at You are offering neither lifestyle nor festish satisfaction to any potential candidate. What do you suppose you have to offer someone who meets your age requirement. I cannot believe the vitriol spewed by some of the people on this forum to older men who are attracted to younger guys.
It pretty much reinforces the stereotype of younger gays being materialistic and shallow. This is most definitely NOT the case over all, and there are plenty of educated younger guys who appreciate the maturity and wisdom of older men. One has to wonder from where this negativity arises.
I am 51, and have had plenty of younger guys who are attracted to me one special one now with me for two years , and I am not wealthy, or especially hunky. This type of ignorance of the larger world probably comes from the influence of the vacuous gay bar scene, of which the younger men I know are not into.
Most are bisexual, so that type of atmosphere is neither needed nor appealing to them, but for some younger gays, it apparently is the center of the world. If the feeling is mutual, why should anyone care? I'm 45 and take very good care of myself, am in good shape and a total top. When I look for some fun online I am hit on by more 18 to 24 year olds than guys in my age group.
Many of them claim to be straight or bi but that's another story. I have fun with them but would not want to date them. And I'm getting more young ones now than I did at It must run in the family.
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My dad became single again at 46 and he was hit on mostly by girls in their 20s. Hmmm im 19 and average build i only want older guys but sadly they all are way to gentle with me in bed hahah to bad i can't find someone worth the time hmmmm. Oh come on. Hundreds and thousands of older gay men would gladly accommodate if the man was young, hung and had a gorgeous face and body. Straight men, too.
They'll make absolute fools of themselves. I stick with guys my own age personally, they pay their own way and everyone is happy. Im 50 my b. We've been together for almost 2 years.
Aging gay men desperate to hold onto their youth can be the most foolish people in the world, I'm afraid. I'm sorry you feel guys your age or older are repulsive, OP. Not that I can't find older men attractivewe just have little to talk. Answered Feb 7, It's not that I have anything against large age differences, as long as it's a mature and consensual relationship where no party is being harmed, I don't think I even get to have an opinion about it. Very rich, and well off. The address does not work R2. If I had a nickel for every time I heard that one Imagine it. Save Email Preferences. They expect YOU to move in with. But of course there are certainly many like him Latest Gay younger for older dating Poet Drew Pisarra.
I've never paid him a dime and he's never asked for it. He originally approached me. I didn't chase HIM, seduce him or molest him. He's a very hot guy and could D probably have any guy he wants. Anyway, the rudest and cruelest people weve come across are are gay guys under What happened to love who you want?
Just proves your immaturity and shallow minds. Nuff said.
There's no need to go to the cheesy bar down the block. Bust out your phone and let your index finger do the hard work.
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